Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Accepting people..

Byfar one of the happiest week of my life. Guess you guys knew about it. No need to elaborate further.

I've learned alot for the past couple of days. Whatever we say, whatever we do..somehow or rather we will contradict ourselves in the future.

To the person they like, one would just give in regardless of how different the opinions can be. For example;if it was a few years back..i wouldn't accept girls who smoke. Totally a turn off.A big NONO. But right now, if you can't beat them, join them instead!

Nah joking. =P

What i'm trying to convey is if you like someone so much, u'll learn to accept them no matter how different they can be. After all the teasing on other people and constant judgement on how bad the person is, you WILL eventually come to a point where the heart is ready to accept.

It works best if the other party are ready to compromise at the same time as well. Just remember noone is perfect. Everyone has his/her flaws. It boils down to you, whether you are WILLINGly to change to a better person or be a bad guy and turn people off.

I accepted who she really is and i'm not forcing her to accept me. In the process, I found happiness. I hope u guys will find it too, because i did.

Cheers.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

That's a big GIANT step there bro, and I must say I'll give you a big round of applause cause you have discover a lighter much simpler side of life & not demand for perfection. Good goin’ !
we all only live to learn ….


bravo,
s..He-mann

Anonymous said...

err, like she said. :P

- julianzz

Anonymous said...

tubz: *hugs*

s He Mann- thanks for the support girl, it made alot of difference. Never had a chance to thank you for introducing MF to me. =p
Take care and cheers.

julianz- stop immitating ur gf and put anonymous. You have an Id dont chu? niabehpepetkia >.<
thanks anyway

Anonymous said...

i lazy log in all the time la KNN art. Somemore word verification is a pain in the ass.like you don't have an ID to log in.

:P

-julianzz