Crying..

What would you do when you see a girl cry?

Honestly,I would be dumbstruck if someone cries in front of me. I suck big time in comforting people when they are down. The only thing i would do is offer tissue to her and tell her it's ok. Truthfully,crying out when you are sad is ok.

For me, crying is like a form of letting go. Why do baby cry? Hungry perhaps? or maybe they just want attention. As we grow older, crying is an art of showing our expression, portraying emotions that are really hidden within our heart.

Now, we only cry when our heart can't take it anymore. Regardless of happy or sad, we do cry for these 2 occasions. No shame in that. Among us are people who are born with different vulnerability. Experience in life help shape a person's emotion.If your life is a turbulence of ups and downs,you prolly have seen everything and makes it harder for you to cry.

It only has 1 flaw, and when you break down, god knows what will happen to you. Ok maybe not that extreme.

But as a friend, what can you do?

Just lend a ear i guess. It helps alot. Listening is a wonderful thing to do when other party have problems. You may not come up with the best of solutions to solve it, but being there by listening is already helping out in 1 way. That's my two cents.

Cheer up ,im sure everything will be alrite. Just have a lil faith in it. Don't shy away or judge the feelings. Let it run naturally and hope for better things ahead. Do not sulk yourself in sadness with what he said. I'm pretty sure he didn't meant it.

Give it another go and see how things go from there. Don't cry, be strong.